At the end of our ladies retreat we got the sad news that my Grandmother, Doris, had passed. She had been struggling with dementia in a memory care facility for the last few years. I haven't seen her as she began on this road and feel blessed to have the wonderful memories that I do instead. My memories include what a strong woman she was and how no matter what she always had her act together. She was always dressed perfectly and always prepared for visitors. She rolled out the red carpet anytime we were there to visit. She could put out a spread of food like no one else. She was probably one of the best shoppers around. She could put an outfit together that you'd never expect and it would be perfect. She had the eye let me tell ya. I miss fresh squeezed orange juice from Grandma's special orange trees and the way she could help you get it together. She was never afraid of hard work and getting in there to make things right.
Her services were different for me. It was more about the religious procedures and less about her life. I did miss that personal touch but know it was exactly what she would have wanted. The music was beautiful and it was great to see my family. It felt like old times again when my Mom was around and I cherish the time I was there for this sad time. It touched me deeply when I saw the effect it had on my brother. We don't talk to much so to see him get emotional was hard for me. It is never easy to say goodbye and I don't think I'll ever get used to it.
My Grandmother now joins my Grandpa and my Mom. The picture above is the three of them. I hope they have enjoyed their reunion. It brings me to tears just to say that as it brings up a lot of emotional memories for me. I am happy to have been born into the family that I was. I will do my best to cherish every moment I have here. I will do my best to remember what these great people have taught me and try and pass it to my children. Although they will be missed they will not be forgotten by me.
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